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So You Want to get Divorced

What Every Married Couple

Should Know About Divorce

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How Much Will It Cost?

I struggle with how to answer this question. How about  ‘How long is a piece of String”:

  • It depends on where you are.
  • It depends on how much conflict you have with your spouse.
  • It depends on how you do it.
  • It depends on how complex your affairs are.
  • Most importantly, though, it depends on whether you stay in control

It depends on where you are.

The cost of divorce varies widely If you accept MEDIATION and our service and live outside Gauteng than it can be expensive considering the traveling and expense incurred. If there are a great number of Assets to divide than it’s possibly feasible but for most of us the solution lies with our ‘online’ format! This may not be a complete Solution but we have had good success using it!

It depends on how much conflict you have with your spouse.

There are all kinds of really good reasons to keep the conflict between you and your spouse at a minimum. Controlling cost is only one reason. But it's a good reason!

A high level of conflict will keep either of you from trusting the other. That means you will have trouble negotiating effectively. And that means you'll be dependent on the judge to resolve everything between you.

 

Can you hear the meter running?

When the level of conflict between the two of you is high, you usually can't communicate with each other effectively, so you communicate through your lawyers.

That means you'll talk about your lawyers' issues, at your lawyers' pace, and at your lawyers' hourly rates.

Now do you hear the meter running?

 

 

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It depends on how you do it.

There are four basic ways you can get divorced. I've listed them in order of how much they generally cost. The no-lawyer divorce is almost always the cheapest, and the "Conflict or Adversarial divorce" is almost always the most expensive.
  • You can do a no-lawyer divorce.
  • You can do an uncontested divorce.
  • You can do a mediated divorce.
  • You can do an adversarial divorce.

It depends on how complex your affairs are.

This one is just common sense, isn't it? If you and your spouse have simple affairs, there's really no reason why you shouldn't be able to complete your Divorce with a minimum of time and expense. Interestingly enough, though, my experience is sometimes just the opposite. Sometimes it's the couple who have nothing to fight over, and no business spending money on their divorce, who dig in their heels and refuse to talk to each other.

That means they give up of their divorce to their lawyers. Months of money is already gone. If you have complex affairs, you really do need to get some extra help.

Of course both of you should have a lawyer to advise you. You’ll probably need financial planners, bankers, business valuators, insurance brokers, and perhaps a therapist or two. But even with the need to involve so many professionals, you can still keep control of your divorce.

It depends on whether you stay in control.

I know you're sick of hearing about this already. But there's just no substitute for staying in control of your divorce You'll end up with a better settlement.
  • You'll end up with a better relationship with your former spouse.
  • You'll save money.
  • You'll save time.
  • You'll get through it with less pain.

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    That open and free exchange of information frees up both spouses to negotiate with each other in confidence. Because both spouses are working with the same base of information, it usually takes far less time to negotiate a resolution thatdivorce mediation makes sense to both spouses. It continues only for so long as all three of you - you, your spouse, and the mediator -- want it to!  Your mediator has to have a good reason to withdraw. You or your spouse can withdraw from mediation at any time, for a good reason, a bad reason, or no reason at all! People often ask, "Does mediation really work?" In a word, YES!. We know from years of research that when you compare couples who have mediated their divorce with couples who go through an “adversarial divorce”, Mediating couples are more likely to be satisfied with the process and the results, likely to take less time and spend less money, and are less likely to go back to court later to fight about something.

    The main advantage of mediation is that it keeps you and your spouse in control of your own divorce. That can make all the difference in your recovering from your divorce and moving on with your life. Mediation allows the two of you to get through your divorce with less conflict than you would experience in an adversarial divorce.

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    Because mediation is all about working with shared knowledge, mediation also often allows you and your spouse to work together to lower your tax bill . . . and that can often translate to more money for you.


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